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Resentment Doesn't Have To Win

Online couples therapy for resentment, communication, and rebuilding connection in Santa Clara, California.

Is your relationship struggling?

  • Constant arguments about the same issues, going in circles without resolution

  • Resentment building from unmet needs and unspoken frustrations

  • Feeling more like roommates than partners—disconnected, distant, lonely

  • Communication breakdown—one person shuts down while the other pursues

  • Difficulty trusting each other or feeling emotionally safe

  • Loss of intimacy, both emotional and physical

  • One or both partners feeling unheard, unseen, or unappreciated

  • Wondering if the relationship can be saved or if you're just going through the motions

You don't have to do this alone.

 How I Can Help

Couples Therapy in Santa Clara, CA.

Deep, root-cause work

Gain an understanding of the deeper needs and fears that drive your arguments. When you understand why your partner reacts the way they do (and why you do too), everything starts to shift.

Practical boundary-setting tools

You'll learn how to express needs without blame, listen without defensiveness, repair after conflict, and create emotional safety for vulnerability.

Trauma-informed Approach

If trauma, infidelity, or betrayal is part of your story, we'll address it with care, helping you process pain while rebuilding trust and safety.

Specilizing In:

  • Resentment and communication breakdown

  • Conflict resolution and fighting patterns

  • Emotional disconnection and loss of intimacy

  • Trust issues and betrayal recovery

  • Pre-marital counseling and relationship preparation

  • Navigating life transitions (parenthood, career changes, relocation)

  • Cultural differences and interfaith relationships

  • LGBTQ+ couples therapy

Online Couples Therapy - Convenient & Confidential

 

I offer secure online therapy sessions for burnout, making it easy to get the support you need from the comfort of your own space. Virtual therapy is just as effective as in-person sessions and eliminates barriers like commute time and scheduling conflicts.

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Ready to Start?

You don't have to have it all figured out before reaching out. You just need to be willing to try. And we can pick up from there.

Schedule a free 15-minute consultation to discuss your needs and see if we're a good fit. Online therapy sessions available for residents of California.

Rates

Individual Therapy

$200

50 min

Online therapy for couples is available online throughout California and in person in Santa Clara, CA.

Accepted Insurances

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Not on these insurances? See what you'll pay  here: ONN Benefits

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