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Reasons Your Resolutions Don't Work

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by Deniss Pleiner, M.A. Licensed Therapist

 

It's that time of year when you make that list of all the things you want to learn/change this year and forget about it in a few weeks.


Reasons Your Resolutions Might Not Work:

1. They Are Not Internally Motivated

You may have picked an externally motivated goal and which then depends

on how others think about you or perceive you .It does not align with who you

want to be or the life you want to lead


2. They Are Not Realistic

You are aiming to go from 0-100. If its not something you have ever done or

kept up, you cannot expect to be able to do so on Jan 1.


3. You Don't Have a Plan

Even if it is something you have the ability to accomplish, you may not have a

plan on how to achieve your goals and know if you are headed in the right

direction.

Creating smaller goals will help you with momentum and motivation


4. They Are Not Celebrated

You forget to celebrate your small wins. It makes it feel like its just one never

ending road with no breaks. It’s always ok to breathe, take a look around, and

rest.


5. You Don't Have a Support System

You don't have an accountability partner or someone to cheer you on.



What to do?

  • Take some time to reflect on what is important to you and eliminate goals/resolutions that do not align with that

  • Start small set markers for celebration every time you reach one small step

  • Consider setting intentions rather than resolutions.

  • Watch my video on How to Create Resolutions that actually work.



In an effort to help you get the best of your resolutions this year, I'm helping you identify potential barriers and pitfalls on today's Therapy Explained Video.





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